Srimad Bhagavatam mentions this incident, and would not point out rape whatsoever. Fairly it is pleasurable and play amongst them. I do Notice Shri Ayappa is the son of Shri Shiva and Shri Mohini, and so she is probably going his spiritual wife which is why he caught her hair https://bookmarkilo.com/story19891384/the-5-second-trick-for-beej-mantra